We’ve all been there. HeartBroken. After a rough break-up, over something YOU THOUGHT WOULD LAST FOREVER. What makes it worse is when the other always seems to be over it within a heartbeat, when your heart hasn’t taken its first pump.
Been.There. AT THAT PLACE NOW
It’s been a struggle, not gonna lie. I mean, you give your heart to person, and the love is powerful, and it’s CLOUD 9 from there. Then in a moment, it’s THE END.
How do you HEAL?
How do you FORGET?
How do you MOVE ON?
FIRST, you have to realize it’s over, and take it in for what it is….A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. We are all guilty for wanting to hold on to something that you know can’t possibly work, and it only continues to damage our well being, and slows down the healing process. SECOND, keep in mind the world isn’t over! Just because you’re experiencing heartache at the moment, doesn’t mean you can never find love again in the future. Surround yourself with friends, find a hobby, find some empowering music, and get to know YOURSELF! In a relationship, we can at times focus on the other person way too much, and at times we lose ourselves. Take a moment to reconstruct your heart by committing to that special person, YOU. LASTLY, always have a positive attitude! Bitterness doesn’t look good on anyone; yes it’s going to take time to forgive, but we must let go. Running the other persons’ name through the dirt to others won’t solve anything either. Be GROWN about yours.
By all means, these steps are not easy; it’s going to take some time. Get to that happy place in your life, ENJOY BEING SINGLE; it can be a BEAUTIFUL THING.
"The longest relationship we'll ever have is the one we have with ourselves. So don't be afraid of being alone." -- Sierra L. Mink
Much Luv
CabrinaRachae
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